Learning and Teaching

10246614_510334319067570_7811031388482900585_nAfter a ton of thinking about the subject¬†and weighing the pros & cons on the matter, I’ve decided to homeschool my son next year. Alexander will be in 4th grade (and Juliana will be in pre-school) and I think it will be the absolutely BEST thing for us all. It will be our last year in Hawaii and the schools here seem to be a bit “lacking” (honestly) and I’m worried that the both of them – mostly Xander – will be behind once we get back to the mainland.

I’ve been “pinning” a ton of resources onto my Pinterest “Learning & Teaching” board and I have some homeschool and teacher friends sharing ideas and curriculum information with me! Lots of support (for which I am very grateful.)

I’m planning on more of an “unschool” sort of direction in homeschool. I was never really “into” school even though I adore learning – and it seems as though my son is similar to me in that sense. I plan on using a “curriculum” for math (Saxon) but the rest of the schooling will be based very loosely on what he “should” be learning. I get to teach not for TESTING but for LEARNING! 4th and 5th grades were my absolutely favorite in school – so I am super stoked to be his teacher for at least 4th grade.

I don’t really mind lesson planning. There are so many friends of mine who homeschool and there are so many FREE resources available online! I’m not stressed about this, I’m excited! (Perhaps a little TOO excited!) My husband is even totally on board! He’s excited about working in lots of science lessons when we do a little family vacation to the Big Island soon!

So, be prepared for the onslaught of homeschooling information. I find it easier to re-locate information via my own blog sometimes (much like the meatloaf recipe I had lost, then found on here!)

Anyway, you’ve been warned. I even added a new Category ūüėČ


Mama! I’m Scared!

My fearless little two-year-old has recently become scared of EVERYTHING! She is scared of the water hose, scared of the Jeep, scared of bikes, scooters, motorcycles,¬†helicopters¬†… The list seems to never end. I never dealt with this with my (now) 8 year old! So, I’m at a bit of a loss here.

Apparently, from what I have been reading this is a pretty common thing.

According to BabyCenter “It’s normal for your child to be fearful. After all, anxiety is a natural condition that helps us cope with new experiences and protects us from danger. Some 2-year-olds are frightened of very specific things: bugs, dogs, the dark, even the vacuum cleaner. Other kids are afraid of new situations or meeting new people. Most of your 2-year-old’s fears will fade as she becomes more secure in herself and her environment.”

We have been trying to work with her about her fears but to be perfectly honest (and I know other parents will agree) – “explaining” away a fear to a two-year-old is like trying to make a brick wall understand physics. Nothing gets through!

Some of the suggestions that I’ve heard are to expose the child to the fear – demonstrate that the vaccuum won’t suck up your big brother so it won’t suck you up either! Use “lovies” (stuffies, blankies) to stand guard over the child. Practice and pretend (like – easing a child’s fears about Doctor offices).

Most importantly – don’t show your child that YOU are scared of something! This one is REALLY difficult for me – at least when we go off-roading in our Jeep. Juliana used to LOVE going on Jeep rides. But I guess since I showed some fear a couple times she really flips out. I know we are safe – but still. It’s a little scary sometimes.

This will be an ongoing process I guess. If you have ANY tips to share please do! I appreciate it!

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Talk, Listen, Connect with your Military Kids

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Hey! Can You Hear Me?

My seven year old son … I love him very much; but he has developed something that many children have – “selective deafness.” Mainly – I know he hears me – he just doesn’t realize this. He ignores my voice like crazy now! I feel like I have to launch a brick at his head to get him to listen most days.

Each (school day) morning I get up at 7:00 – brew myself a cuppa and then go wake him up. Then at 7:20 I go in again to wake him up. 7:25 … 7:30 … By 7:35 I’ve yanked the covers off him and turned on the light.

I pick out his clothes; throw them at him and tell him “here put these on” then I have to keep reminding him to eat his breakfast, put shoes and socks on, breathe …. I’m sure he has A.D.D … hell I have A.D.D … But seriously kid?! You’re seven years old! Get with the damn program!

Sidenote: Last night he finished off the milk. So the only milk left is already in the baby’s cup. I have no creamer or milk for my coffee. Is it wrong to ‘borrow’ some milk from the sippy cup? Yes? Oh … Oh well ….