No … not clubbing like cave people!!
I like going out with my girls every once in awhile – but since we are all “Mom’s” it’s usually every once in a blue moon! We’ve hit a couple bars here in town (and outside town) and have had a lot of fun. I bet you can picture it – a few Mom-types out at a bar gulping down beer (or mixed drinks) and playing (or in my own case – trying to play) pool. It’s a blast!
My normal “attire” for going out to a bar is a pair of jeans and a nice shirt – short sleeve, lower cut, strapless even sometimes. I do my makeup and I do my hair. I put on some good upbeat music (I am in LOVE with Pink’s “Bad Influence” right now) and I feel good about myself.
Now – when someone (um, usually a guy) compliments me on how I look I admit it feels good. It’s an ego boost for me. My husband tells me all the time how beautiful I am but admit it chicks – sometimes it’s nice to get compliments from other men also. I obviously don’t ACT upon those compliments – and I normally just laugh at whatever guy is doing the complimenting.
I’m pretty comfortable in my own skin here.
I was pointed in the direction of an online store called “Ami Club Wear” and while they claim it’s a “positive” place for girls – I’m not entirely sure because the models are really super fake looking. But – I did happen to find a shirt (well, a few shirts) that I really like and would consider wearing – even without having the “fake bewbies” that the models have! I liked the Heart Flame Tattoo strapless top a lot. They have some really cute summer dress choices too. I also noticed the store had a huge assemblage of pirate-wench costumes which I simply adore. Gotta be a smidge (who am I kidding?!) skinnier for those though.